Wednesday, July 24, 2013

My Connection to Play

                                                    "My Connections to Play."

The 2 quotes that I feel summarize my feelings of childhood play are :
1.       For a small child there is no division between playing and learning; between the things he or she does ‘just for fun’ and things that are ‘educational.’ The child learns while living and any part of living that is enjoyable is also play. ~ Penelope Leach (psychologist and author).
2.      Children need the freedom and time to play. Play is not a luxury. Play is a necessity.” Kay Redfield Jamison (professor of psychiatry).

When I was growing up, my family could not afford video games, cable and internet. My childhood play consist of going outside and finding something to play with and returning home before the street light came on. This type of play exposed me to different types of animals, insects, plants, trees, how to climb trees etc. I was given hours and hours of exploration time with simple rules: Do not leave the neighborhood and be back inside before the street lights come on. I believe that in today’s play time, play is somewhat scripted and it does not allow the child to maximize the gains of explorations.  Not only does play allow the child to loosen up and release some energy; most importantly the child will learn and develop socially and emotionally through exploring on their own terms.  It is very critical for both parents and educators to understand that play is much more than a recreational pastime for children. The importance of play in child development and learning is vitally significant. It is through a child’s active play that they acquire and refine many of the prerequisite skills that contribute to successful learning.

 The two things I chose were a ball and a stick. I feel these two things provide unlimited exploration ideas.
  1. Ball                         
  2. This page contains pictures and information about Stick Insects and ...

                                                                                                                     

Friday, July 12, 2013

Healthy relationships

A relationship are sometimes very difficult to figure out. Sometimes that are stressful, controversial, confrontational and very difficult. Other times they can be refreshing, stress free, delightful and inspirational. Our ability to build healthy patterns early on in our relationship often establishes a solid foundation. People often need different things from their relationship. I do not have any family or not many friends in the area where I live so must of my relationships in person are work related in some capacity. At work I have many different type of relationships, some positive and some negative. I especially treasure my relationship with the players on my Girls basketball team. Each young lady is different with their totally different personalities and characteristics. Although I have a relationship with all of them, our relationship differs in the aspect of what they need. For some that do not have a strong family support at home I have the relationship of a parent. To others that does have a strong parental support, we have the relationship of their coach and mentor. All of the relationships I have with my team is very important to me. One thing that I have to remind myself is that I can not be judgmental in order to keep our communication bridge open and to continue to have a healthy relationship with my players and their family.It brings me joy that my team, listen, understands and communicates without hesitation.